Top 10 Things to Look for in a Guru

1. A sense of personal power or strength; this person is not necessarily charismatic, but gives you a sense s/he is spiritually strong, balanced, somehow unshakeable (think Mother Teresa)

2. Sense of humor and amusement in teaching and conduct with others; without the need to control people, places and things, or the fear of being controlled, such a person would be relaxed, optimistic, encouraging, even happy.

3. Commitment to spiritual growth and progress in oneself and others; a track record of spiritual commitment and achievement(!?).

4. Integrity in personal and family life; anyone can talk about spirituality, how about someone who lives it.

5. Inspires a feeling of safety and support; shuns manipulative power plays and games when relating to others in the group; places no pressure on you to conform; is surrounded by friendly people in supportive environment.

6. Confident in teaching; note how s/he reacts to opposition or contradiction from followers or others; an enlightened person will react with understanding and compassion, rather that pull spiritual rank.

7. Non-competitive in all things; there is no point in encouraging competition among followers because enlightenment is not a sport. In fact, the harder you pursue it the farther away it gets.

8. Clearly explains what is taught and why; no mumbo-jumbo or elaborate "mystical" ceremonies that are off limits, to be taken on faith alone; no sense of hiding behind ceremony or tradition.

9. Has integrity in all financial matters; no sense of exploitation of teachings for financial gain.

10. Emphasizes that your personal experience is the ultimate authority in all things; you should feel that s/he encourages a spirit of free and unlimited inquiry, that nothing is beyond questioning, that you are free to participate or walk away, it doesn't matter.

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